Day 15 - The people pleaser

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to take on the character of the ‘people pleaser’, instead of accepting and allowing myself to do what is best for all, in all moments.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to put my own self-interest of pleasing others, instead of doing what is best for all.

I forgive myself that I haven’t accepted and allowed myself to see/realize/understand that when I put my own self-interest of people pleasing ahead of doing what is best for all, I am in fact abusing others as myself in this life and manifesting consequences.

I forgive myself that I haven’t accepted and allowed myself to see/realize/understand the moments of when I go into a people pleasing mode in the name of self-interest, in order to avoid conflict.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that a people pleasing character is a harmless character.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to justify keeping the ‘people pleasing’ character around through the belief that it is harmless, instead of accepting and allowing myself to see/realize/understand that the people pleasing character is not only limiting to self and others, but also acts as a pre-occupation and deterrent to sorting out the mess in this world, because the ‘people pleaser’ will always avoid looking for any solutions and constantly try to manipulate and divert away from what is best for all.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed the prolonging of the abuse and suffering in this world through the acceptance and allowance of the people pleasing character, instead of accepting and allowing myself to do what is best for all always.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed self abuse and the abuse of others in this world through people pleasing, just so that I can avoid conflict, which is actually the direction I must take in order to get to know myself and do what is best for all.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear the thought of being in conflict and feeling ‘out of control’.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to connect the thought of being in conflict and feeling out of control, and the negative emotion of fear, thus I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear my own fear.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to avoid conflict out of fear of changing to that what is best for all.

I forgive myself that I haven’t accepted and allowed myself to give myself the opportunity to walk through conflict and separation that I have created, in order to do what is best for all.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to give all authority up to my mind in self-interest, instead of doing what is best for all as myself.

When and as I see myself playing the people pleasing character and looking to avoid conflict, I stop and I breathe and I remain in the moment as the expression of who I am.

I see/realize/understand that in avoiding conflict, as the people pleaser character, I am placing limitations on myself and others in the forcing of a beingness within a narrow set of parameters, that I believe to be life, when it is actually just living within an addiction to fear within myself in order to perpetuate a false sense of self in self-interest.

I see/realize/understand that the people pleasing character is in fact a great abuser in this life, as it will constantly try to manipulate and deceive to divert one from facing conflict and doing what is best for all.

I see/realize/understand that in avoiding conflict, I am in fact avoiding the facing of myself and what I have accepted and allowed in self-interest.

I commit myself to support myself to stop the people pleasing character, through remaining here in the moment as the expression of who I am in breath within the physical.

I commit myself to face myself as the conflict/separation that I have accepted and allowed.

I commit myself to support myself when walking through the conflict through writing, self-forgiveness, self-corrective application and physically through remaining here within breath.

Day 14 - Taking things personally

 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that My partner is being condescending and trying to be better than me my projecting a certain attitude of smugness and attempt at dominance, by ‘telling me how it is’ according to her personal opinion that I disagree with.

I forgive myself that I haven’t accepted and allowed myself to see/realize/understand that until there is an agreement in what is best for all, neither opinion is what is best for all and are just opinions.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to take it personal when my partner told me ‘the dogs don’t listen to you’.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to define superiority within ‘being alpha’ in a relationship.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to take it personally when I see someone appear to disrespect me or try to put me down.

I forgive myself that I haven’t accepted and allowed myself to see/realize/understand that I am equal to and one with the interpretations in my reality and I actually create inferiority and take things personally through my own acceptances and allowances.

I forgive myself that I haven’t accepted and allowed myself to see/realize/understand the consequences that I create in taking something personally in that I will then go into an energy instead of supporting and assisting myself to stop the condescendence by removing myself from the participation of it.

I forgive myself that I haven’t accepted and allowed myself to consider my partner and what she may be going through in appearing to abuse me.

I forgive myself that I haven’t accepted and allowed myself to

I forgive myself that I haven’t accepted and allowed myself to put myself in my partner’s shoes to find out what she may be going through, that might cause condescendence.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to take things personally and then go into blame of my partner for apparently making me feel this way, instead of accepting and allowing myself to see/realize/understand that it was my choice that created the way that I feel.

I forgive myself that I haven’t accepted and allowed myself to support my partner by supporting myself to stop taking things personally in self-interest of the ego and remaining stable here.

When and as I see myself take offence to or take something my partner says personally and as what I think is an attack, I stop and I breathe and I remain in the moment as the expression of who I am.

I see/realize/understand that in ‘taking things personally’ I am directly accepting and allowing separation and the definition of inferiority and actually participating in the energy of judgment.

I see/realize/understand that I am equal to and one with that in my world and have the ability through my acceptances and allowances to stop abuse in this world by stopping taking something personally.

I see/realize/understand that I don’t know the full details of why my partner may have said what she said, or realized it was offensive.

I see/realize/understand that if something said was meant to be abusive, chances are it was learned from somewhere else, and the best way to support this person that may have been abused is to stop taking what they said personally.

I see/realize/understand that to stop abuse, one must stop the participation in taking things personally.

I see/realize/understand that by taking something personally I am in fact opening the door to abuse and abusing myself.

I commit myself to stopping the abuse of others through stopping the acceptance and allowance of abuse through taking something personally.

I commit myself to stop taking things personally, and investigate how I define myself and others through what I take personally.

I commit myself to remaining stable here and stopping abuse, to contribute to a world that is best for all, where abuse is not tolerated.

I commit myself to stop the blaming of another for abusing and ‘playing the victim’ in taking things personally, and thereby stopping the abuse of myself.

I commit myself to stand up for life and stop the continual self-abuse of taking things personally.